Challenging Sexist Proverbs: Unpacking Linguistic Sexism in Krio
Language is one of the most powerful tools shaping how we think, behave, and relate to one another. Yet, it can also unconsciously reinforce inequality. At the Men’s Association for Gender Equality – Sierra Leone (MAGE-SL), we are exploring how sexism is embedded in our everyday language, particularly in Krio, the lingua franca spoken across Sierra Leone.
Through our new awareness series, Unpacking Linguistic Sexism, we invite Sierra Leoneans to reflect on the words, expressions, and proverbs that have long been taken for granted — and to question the gendered meanings they carry.
Language and Gender: Why Words Matter
Across the world, research has shown a clear link between language and gender inequality. Words and expressions do more than describe reality — they shape cultural attitudes and influence behaviour. When sexist expressions are normalised, they subtly legitimise discriminatory beliefs about the roles, abilities, and worth of women and men.
In Sierra Leone, Krio proverbs are deeply rooted in oral tradition and cultural identity. They provide wisdom, humour, and insight — yet, some also perpetuate harmful gender stereotypes. By examining these proverbs, MAGE-SL seeks to spark reflection and promote linguistic change that supports equality.
A Closer Look: “Bad man bɛtɛ pas ɛmti bed”
One commonly used Krio proverb says:
“Bad man bɛtɛ pas ɛmti bed,”
which translates to “A bad husband is better than an empty bed.”
At first glance, the saying may seem harmless or even practical. However, when unpacked, it reveals layers of ingrained sexism. The proverb implies that a woman’s worth or social status depends on being married — even to an abusive or neglectful partner. It dismisses the value of women’s independence, suggesting that companionship, regardless of its quality, is preferable to solitude.
This expression not only undermines women’s autonomy but also normalises toxic relationships by romanticising endurance and dependence. Such beliefs can reinforce broader societal pressures that discourage women from leaving harmful environments.
Redefining the Narrative
By confronting these expressions head-on, MAGE-SL aims to challenge the cultural acceptance of gender bias hidden in language. Through public dialogue, workshops, and media engagement, we encourage Sierra Leoneans to ask:
What messages do our proverbs send to young girls and boys?
How can we preserve cultural richness while rejecting inequality?
What new expressions could promote equality, respect, and partnership?
Reframing how we speak about gender is an essential step toward building a more inclusive society. Words have power — and by transforming our language, we transform our mindset.
